I have always taken pride in the fact that I have inherited a lot of my moms good qualities & none of my dads bad ones.
Except I have inherited the part of him that I hated the most. Oddly though, I don’t hate myself. Yet. It has crossed my mind that I do subconsciously sabotage everything good in my life though. As did he.
I know this is vague; but it’s all I’m going to say.